I think she is FABULOUS!
01 Dec 2011 3 Comments
in Birthday, Bridal, Fashion, Funnies, My Favorite Things, Weddings
Well, today is the birthday of one of my dearest friends. Today she is turning 30! I want to celebrate her on my blog today!
Here goes:
Tina D’Ariano. Her first name is actually Diamantina. I think it’s beautiful! A few of us tease her that no one can pronounce her name right, so it never sticks! ;)
I met Tina about 4 years ago at our church. I remember her big, curly, fabulous hair & of course her cute clothes. She is a fashionista for sure. As a matter of fact she has quite an elaborate shoe collection.
Shortly after meeting her she came to the young adult ministry my husband & I pastor & I got a chance to invite her to my small group. She always had things to say & add to the group as we met, but she was still not completely sure about the whole church thing & the whole Jesus thing. We joke that she would come to group/church and then go wild after she left. I loved her all the same. Slowly but surely she became more & more serious about her relationship with Jesus. I was so proud of her.
There is really so much I could say about our journey/friendship together, but the bottom line is that she has grown so much in so many areas of her life. She loves Jesus, she loves her family & she loves to give to others. There have been countless times that people from the church have needed a place to stay and she ALWAYS has opened her home. Whenever someone was throwing a bridal shower, birthday or baby shower she would always volunteer her house. I remember when she moved into her new home she said that she wanted to use it to be a blessing to other people. Tina is so unselfish. She is always thinking about others.
Tina is super determined. When she sets her mind to something she is going to do it! Sometimes her determination has made me laugh about certain things she has been “determined to do.” We won’t go there on the blog today.
Tina & I have had our ups & downs, we’ve shared happy times and sad times, we have sat with one another and prayed with one another, we have celebrated joys & successes, we have recognized failures & defeats together & I can truly say she is one of the most genuine people you will ever meet. I love doing life with her. I am so thankful that I have had the opportunity to share my life with her & her share hers with me.
Some of the things Tina does that make me laugh:
She buys things and then returns them like nobody’s business. She always finds something “better” or “just what she was looking for.” I remember the first time I went with her on a “return spree” I looked in the car at all the bags & thought to myself, “this chic is not playin’ !”
She spends so much time accessorizing. Not just with her clothes but with her home too. I will never forget the day I went shopping with her for a birthday outfit. HILARIOUS! She spent HOURS toiling over the perfect accessories for her ensemble. Don’t get me wrong, I love accessorizing, but she is one of a kind! Even with her home….One week certain vases or pictures will be in one spot and the next week they will be in a totally different room. It’s hilarious!
Some things I appreciate about Tina:
When I got engaged, she was there in NYC with me. What a special moment. I’m so glad I got to share it with her & another dear friend, Elishya. She celebrated with me and shared in my joy. You don’t always find that in every friendship. It’s easy for jealousy or discouragement to come in. This is not the case with Tina though.
Tina was there with me through some of the planning of my wedding. She was such an encouragement through the whole process. She was always excited when I shared wedding details with her, you know stuff us girly girls love. Even when I was sick right before my wedding her & a few other friends came and wrapped all my candy apples favors while I laid on the couch. She celebrated with me at my bridal shower & picked out an amazing Diva handbag cake (I still think about that cake), then when my husband & I bought our first home & so many other exciting life events. She’s a friend that is there & truly shares in your joys. I truly believe Tina is going to reap all of those things back to her because she has sewn so much love, joy, goodness, kindness & encouragement into so many people’s lives.
Tina is sensitive. She is sensitive to how others feel. She is really good about noticing when people are down or need a hug. That is such a great attribute to have.
Tina teaches & leads ladies in our young adult group, she is an example to so many. She is passionate about helping others & there have been countless times that her acts of service & her ability to lead have brought me to tears. (Yep, I am crying now) I’m not here saying Tina is a perfect person, but I’m saying she’s am imperfect person who strives to do her best! Tina is what I’d like to call, “Real.” I love “real” people.
I really could go on & on but I don’t want to make my other friends sad. Haha. Just kidding.
Today I celebrate Tina’s life. I celebrate the woman that she is. I celebrate the life that she gives to so many around her.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FABULOUS TINA!
If you know her & she’s impacted your life in some way, show her some birthday love & leave a comment at the top of this post (under the date)
Are you a dreamer OR do you sit on the sidelines?
13 Oct 2011 1 Comment
in Business, DIY, Dreams, Faith, Family, Life Lessons, My Favorite Things
Are You a Dreamer OR do you sit on the sidelines?
I ask myself that question frequently. You see, my husband is quite the dreamer. In fact, it often scares me (makes me nervous) how often he dreams. I admire that in him though. He is a visionary. I always say “I’m more of the type to help carry the vision out.” I am the more organized, calculated, cautious individual. I think it’s important to have balance with the two.
This morning was a little different for me. I was dreaming about the future! It’s so important to do that so that you have things to look forward to, things to work towards, goals to set & attain & accomplishments to look forward to.
Awhile back, a friend of ours gave us an idea of making a “Dream Board.”
Have you seen one before?
When he told us about it, I had never seen one. Basically you glue a bunch of pictures (your dreams) to this huge board and hang it up somewhere that you’ll see it quite often. You can clip the pictures from magazines, the computer, wherever you want, really. Ron & I made one for our life together. On the board we have goals, things we’d like to accomplish, business’ we’d like to start, things we’d like to own one day, places we’d like to visit, etc. It’s so exciting to look at, especially as a young family.
It’s so cool because it keeps the vision in front of you. Sometimes it’s so easy to forget about our dreams or get discouraged when things don’t look like they are going to pan out. We have to constantly remind ourselves to NEVER GIVE UP! If God gave you a dream to start a business, START IT! If you have a desire to own a vacation home, DON’T FEEL BAD ABOUT IT! If you want to go on vacation to Tahiti, GO, GO, GO! (and take me with you)
If you want to adopt a child, DO IT!
Don’t let the busyness of life just keep you “busy” and never really accomplishing anything. Don’t live a mundane life; 9-5 blah, blah, blah. I believe God has called us to live a life of purpose, a life of passion, a life full of dreams & visions.
I want to share a few shots of my dream board with you. Obviously, not all of them, because a lot of them are personal or under wraps. ;)
With that being said, it’s important to note that you shouldn’t share your dreams with everyone. Share them with a few people that you can trust and that will pray with you and offer you sound advice. There are a lot of “Dream Killers” out there. They will shoot your dreams down in an instant. The reasons for this are vast: jealousy, defeat in their own life, negative attitudes, etc. Stay far away from the Dream Killers.
So here are just a few of the shots from our Dream Board:

We want to have a few kiddos. My husband has red hair, so I often imagine them running around with strawberry tops

God had put the world/missions in our hearts. We love to take mission trips & lead others on mission trips around the world.
I want to encourage you today to DREAM BIG! If your dreams scare you or make you a little uncomfortable that’s probably a good thing. Living a “comfortable” life is not fun; there is no risk involved & everything is just “expected.” Don’t get me wrong there are times where you don’t have peace and you need to be sensitive and obedient to that, but everyone that accomplished something great had to take a risk, had to be willing to fail a time or two or three. DON’T BE AFRAID TO FAIL! If you’re failing, please remember, you are at least trying. Too many people sit on the sidelines of their life bored & miserable with their life because they are scared to take a risk.
If you’re feeling brave & you like the idea of a dream board, take some time to sit down and make one. ;) Fill the whole thing up! If you’re not all about cutting and glueing than at least write them down somewhere and look at them often.
Too Good, Not to Share!
05 Oct 2011 1 Comment
in DIY, Fall, My Favorite Things, Yummy Recipes
Happy Wednesday!
Last night my ladies small group met at my house and we were planning a nice Fall dinner & activity for the next time we meet. I have been wanting to make some sort of spice cake, so I volunteered to make that and homemade chili with all the fixin’s.
I came across a simple, but yummy recipe for a spice cake that I want to share with you.
White Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Spice Cake
(sounds so delightful, doesn’t it?)
1 pkg. Duncan Hines Spice Cake Mix
3 large eggs
1 C. pumpkin
2/3 C. evaporated milk
1/3 C. vegetable oil
1 C. white chocolate chips
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour 12-cup bundt cake pan. Combine cake mix, eggs, pumpkin, evaporated milk and vegetable oil in a large bowl. Beat at low speed until moistened. Beat at medium speed for 2 minutes; stir in chocolate chips. Pour into bundt pan. Bake for 40-45 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean. Cool in pan on wire rack for 25 minutes; invert onto wire rack to cool completely. Drizzle HALF of glaze over cake; serve with remaining glaze.
WHITE CHIP CINNAMON GLAZE:
3 T. evaporated milk
1 C. white chocolate chips
1/2 tsp. ground cinnamon
Heat 3 T. evaporated milk in a small, heavy-duty saucepan over medium heat just to a boil; remove from heat. Add 1 C. white chocolate chips; stir until smooth. Stir in 1/ tsp. ground cinnamon.
I can’t wait to taste this & of course share it with my girlfriends. Let me know some of your tasty Fall recipes. I’d love to add a few to my arsenal.








































































